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Wife's social security amount estimate

I am trying to figure out if there is a way for my wife to get larger social security amount next year. My amount will be closer to $3K but my wife's projected benefit based on government site estimat...

reddit.com Dec 28 2024

Retiring with a younger spouse

Well, finally coming up on retirement from a corporate sales job after more than thirty years. Getting Medicare at the start of 65th birthday month was the key to my decision. Younger wife (10 years) ...

reddit.com Dec 24 2024

How Long Do You and Your Spouse Plan to Live?

This post focuses primarily on the implications of assuming, or planning, to live longer than one’s life expectancy. For the purpose of this post, we are going to assume that when you are asked ...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Dec 22 2024

Spouse age gaps in retirement

I officially retired at 60 from the military (Reserve) last year and from law enforcement in 2017. My wife turns 50 next month and is planning at least 15 years until she retires. I want to travel the...

reddit.com Dec 09 2024

Seeking advice on relocating after retirement.

I'm a 69 year old male, retired 3 weeks ago. My wife is 68 and will likely retire this summer. We live in the Boston suburbs where cost of living is high. Want to move to a more affordable area that o...

reddit.com Dec 09 2024

Last day, last time I’m doing…

Today’s my last day. 61F (turning 62 next week). Husband already retired. I’m relishing every “last” moment of this day. Last time waking up at 5:45 am Last time taking a showe...

reddit.com Dec 06 2024

How did you get through your last year of work?

Hi everyone! I am just over 6 months from retirement. I am waiting for my husband to be on Medicare and I will be 59 and 1/2. I have seen a financial advisor and was told I could retire now. I have wo...

reddit.com Dec 06 2024

Did retirement end or was hard on your marriage?

I'm concerned that once we retire, it will be the end of us. I am very active and my spouse is slowing down...way down. Weekends are spent a lot of time apart because I'm busy with housework or out wi...

reddit.com Nov 25 2024

I am retired but spouse is not - what to do

I (60F) retired almost a year ago. My spouse has just past retirement age and is still working by choice. He has never spoken about retirement- when he would like to, what plans he has, things he want...

reddit.com Nov 10 2024

Update on navigating first year of retirement

Hi everyone. Just an update to a previous post where I was wondering how to occupy myself in my retirement in a rural and isolate place, sans car, whilst my husband continues to work. Well, I won a 9-...

reddit.com Nov 09 2024

social security for spouse

My wife will reach FRA 6/2025 she will draw on my earning history. Will she be qualified for 1/2 what my SS payment was in 2019 or will it be adjusted for COLAs that have taken place since that time?...

community.aarp.org Oct 17 2024

renting or buying in retirement

We own our home and will retire in 2-3 years (me at 70, my wife at 65). We have adequate retirement income to cover expenses. We live in a small town that is unfortunately quite a ways from either of ...

reddit.com Oct 13 2024

Spousal Benefit Claim almost 2 years after death

My mom is 87 and she lost her husband 2 years ago. She is not tech saavy and received no letter from SS so she did nothing about claiming spousal benefits. When I assisted her to put in the claim, SS ...

community.aarp.org Oct 11 2024

It's almost that time (outsourced to retirement)

My company outsourced my job and I am 62 next month. I have a 401k, pension and working younger wife. She is 56 will work another 4 to 6 years. Medical is covered via her work. I am on staff till Dece...

reddit.com Oct 02 2024

“Retirement” in Spanish is “jubilaciòn”

I'm counting down to retirement on 9/1/25, and my wife (retired 5 years ago and loving it) sent me this nugget today. A retired person is a jùbilado/a. I just love this, with its connotation of...

reddit.com Sep 29 2024

Retirement and unexpected changes

The wife and I are wrapping up careers and plan to be completely retired by early November. While it’s a little intimidating, it’s also very exciting. It felt great last week when I starte...

reddit.com Sep 28 2024

Retired - but spouse is still working

I can’t wait for my wife to retire. What? Yes, I mean it. I planned ahead for retirement. I have plenty of hobbies and retirement has been the greatest. However, my wife still works. Therefore, ...

reddit.com Sep 26 2024

Beneficary question.

Hi. My mother's husband started collecting her social security after she died 6 years ago. Recently a previous husband she is divorced from 50 years ago is now trying to file for 1/2 her social securi...

community.aarp.org Sep 22 2024

How do you live on a cash basis in today's world?

I'm a few months into retirement, my wife is still working till next June. One of the things we're trying to do--and were starting before I retired--is transitioning our spending on routine items away...

reddit.com Sep 18 2024

What to Do If Your Doctor Spouse Dies Young

As doctors, we know people die all the time. Financially speaking, it's a massive tragedy to lose income when others are depending on it. The post What to Do If Your Doctor Spouse Dies Young appeared ...

whitecoatinvestor.com Sep 18 2024

Earlier retirement with survivor benefits?

I think I'm going to retire next year at 60, by claiming my survivor benefits from my late wife. I would later switch to benefits at 67 for the full amount. I was shocked to find out this was possible...

reddit.com Sep 13 2024

Long distance move, late in the game

Hello everyone! My husband and I are in our early 60s (him) and late 50s (me). He is looking at retiring from his company in about 5 years. We have lived in the same area in the south for the entire 3...

reddit.com Sep 10 2024

Should I Consider a Personal Liability Umbrella Policy?

I've been retired a couple of years now, my wife about a year. We recently bought a new car. In talking with our insurance guy, he recommends we get a Personal Liability Umbrella Policy. It would cove...

reddit.com Sep 06 2024

On Your Own

As we age, it’s normal to become more empathetic toward widows and widowers. We see friends go through the struggle of losing their spouse and deal with that difficult transition […] The ...

theretirementmanifesto.com Aug 30 2024

Seeking investment advice for a concerened 61 yr old.

I am 61 years old. Reasonably healthy and still working. Wife is 65 and on disabilty but better after 2 new knees. I don't have any retirement plan other than SS. We just paid off our house, vehicles ...

reddit.com Aug 26 2024

Retiring before spouse due to medical issues

My husband and I had an excellent retirement plan and were planning on retiring the same month. We have a vision for what that will be like and what we will do, However, I’m having mobility prob...

reddit.com Aug 22 2024

Can we semi-retire soon, 59 yrs old and married

Hi everyone, My wife and I are thinking of packing in our jobs and perhaps holding part-time roles for a few years. We’re both 59. The dilemma- we don’t have nearly enough to retire on in ...

reddit.com Aug 20 2024