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Advise, because no one fits my description?

I have no 401k's, no pensions and no stock, no financial advisor. We've always done everything with our own two hands. We've worked way beyond retirement to help our kids. I f(69) and spouse m(75). My...

reddit.com May 31 2025

Important records for heirs - what form?

Seven years ago I created a notebook of important papers for our kids/surviving spouse for when one or both of us is gone. One of my summer projects is updating it. For example, I'm giving up on inclu...

reddit.com May 29 2025

Drowning in spouses attention.

So, indeed I'm head over heels in love with my wife. I have it really good. I retired almost 3 years ago & my wife joined me 3 months ago. We're Gen Jones boomers, with my wife truly a last gasp b...

reddit.com May 29 2025

Ideas for retirement gift for husband

My husband is retiring at the end of June at the age of 60. I’ll be following next February when I turn 60. I would really like to get him a gift to celebrate this milestone, especially since I ...

reddit.com May 24 2025

Looking for legal services related to moving abroad.

My wife and I are looking to move to a Latin American country (Mexico, Costa Rica, or Panama) and I'd like to know if anyone has recommendations on legal services that can help with the process of app...

community.aarp.org May 14 2025

Where did nine years go - time is shrinking

We retired in 2016, I wanted to retire and my better half (wife) had to. I find it impossible to accept that this was 9 years ago. We are doing fine after a few bumps along the way. The time flew by a...

reddit.com May 11 2025

Any retirement party suggestions ?

Hello all! I am officially 591/2 and counting down to my retirement in less than 2 months. :-) My husband graciously suggested we have a party. I agree I should celebrate such an accomplishment in my ...

reddit.com May 07 2025

Reader Case: I Want to FIRE But My Wife Doesn’t

It’s been a while and our reader cases are piling up, so without further ado, it’s time for another reader case! Greetings FC and W!!! I’m normally a “Live quietly amongthe mas...

millennial-revolution.com Apr 30 2025

What to do about Retired Husband Syndrome?

I have Retired Husband Syndrome (it's a real thing, look it up). We both retired last year and took a few months to travel - the idea being "you never know" how long you will be fit enough to do it (w...

reddit.com Apr 25 2025

Completing SSA Form 1724

My wife is the legal representative for her mother who recently passed away. SSA took back her monthly benefit by reversing her direct deposit. Although she is due the benefit, SSA says we have to fil...

community.aarp.org Apr 25 2025

To move or not to be near grandchild

We are probably a few years from retirement. Depending on health and finances it would be between 2-5 years. I am 60 and my wife will hit 60 in a few months. We have two of our kids live in the area b...

reddit.com Apr 23 2025

What are Accountable Care Organizations?

My wife and I got letters yesterday from some outfit that is now connected to our primary care medical office called an "Accountable Care Organization". I've done some online searching about them, and...

reddit.com Apr 09 2025

Rolling with the punches in retirement

My wife and are only 18 months retired, and we haven’t encountered anything that has seriously blown up our retirement lifestyle of choice — yet. But we know others that have. Kids have mo...

reddit.com Apr 03 2025

Retirement Basics: What Every Spouse Should Know

? Show Notes In this episode, we kick off a month-long series on retirement basics, emphasizing the crucial role of partnership in planning for retirement. We discuss why it's vital for both spouses t...

share.transistor.fm Apr 02 2025

Using long term capital gains in retirement.

I want to retire in the next year or so (I’m turning 65 my wife turning 64 in 2025). I have a large amount of a single stock (550k) and a fair amount of 401k money (1.2 million) as well as (200k...

reddit.com Mar 25 2025

Is It Better To Separate Or Join Accounts With A Spouse?

How to separate or combine accounts with a spouse is a difficult decision. I have a system that has worked well. When we first got married, my wife was rightfully worried about me analyzing all of her...

dadisfire.com Mar 24 2025

We are Babysitting every other week. All week.

Hello! I’m still working until June FT then plan to go part time, every other week when we don’t have our grandkid. She’ll be 2 soon. Our son split from wife in 2023 just after hubby...

reddit.com Mar 23 2025

Experience with Tricare For Life?

My husband is retired from the military and we became eligible for Tricare when he turned 60. I’m planning to retire the end of October at age 64. What have your experiences been with Tricare co...

reddit.com Mar 18 2025

Survior benefits

Hypothetically if I am receiving $700 a month and my husband is receiving $1200 a month, my survivor benefits would be his $1200, and not his plus mine?...

community.aarp.org Mar 07 2025

Should We Hire A Financial Planner?

My husband [61] and I [58] plan to retire in 4 yrs when he turns 65. He is not concerned about the money/budget aspect of our early retirement, but I'm panicking we wont have enough to live on long-te...

reddit.com Feb 21 2025

Gift from one spouse to another?

hi thanks for listening! Not yet retired. I am 65 in April and love my healthcare admin job, Husband won't be 65 til Aug 26 and has a love/hate relationship with his job. My FIL died last July and we ...

reddit.com Feb 11 2025

Worried about moving for retirement

I am 67, my husband is 68 and we both plan to retire at 70. Our desire in retirement is to have a bigger piece of property where we can do extensive gardening. We currently live in a nice suburban hom...

reddit.com Feb 10 2025

Please help me to deal with my fear of retirement!!

I am 66 y.o. And I retire at the end of March. Financially, we are good. My wife will work for one more year after I retire. We have been a very family centric couple. It’s always been about our...

reddit.com Feb 06 2025

What vacations have been your best yet?

Wife and I are 63 and now that her knee surgery is over are wanting to plan some vacations. We have been to a few places es, Alaska, Canada, carribean. But what i want to know is for the man and wife ...

reddit.com Feb 04 2025

Paid Sick Leave Helps Older Workers, Who Need it Most

It’s common for older workers to develop an acute medical problem requiring immediate attention or to have a spouse or parent who suddenly becomes ill and must be cared for. Paid sick leave prov...

crr.bc.edu Feb 03 2025

Best affordable cell phone carrier?

My wife and I have been Verizon customers for over 20 years and, now that we’re retired, are looking for ways to reduce our monthly expenses. My mother was on our plan and recently passed away s...

reddit.com Jan 30 2025

Question about planning wife's SS benefits

I have seen contradictory information about this question online and don't find anything on the SSA website that addresses it. I am 75, the high wage-earner, and started collecting my benefits at age ...

community.aarp.org Jan 26 2025

Retiring before your spouse? How did it go?

I'm likely going to retire 3 to 4 years before my spouse will retire. Various reasons, but this has always been the plan. He is fine with it. Very supportive. I've had a minor taste of this for years ...

reddit.com Jan 23 2025

I need help deciding where to retire

Just turned 64M. I plan on retiring in September. I’ve lived in Tallahassee Fl for 22 years. My wife passed away December 23’ and I just think it would be easier for me to continue on in a...

reddit.com Jan 22 2025

Spousal benefits and repeal of GPO

I am 76 and my spouse is 79. She applied for Social Security benefits at her full retirement age. I was subject to GPO so I couldn't apply for spousal benefits. Please help me with the following quest...

community.aarp.org Jan 16 2025

Silver sneakers program: feedback sought

Happy retirement, all. My husband is retiring in May at 65.5 yrs (so on Medicare) and with our institutional healthcare plan, which happens to be an Advantage plan (Humana, it's negotiated by our stat...

reddit.com Jan 06 2025