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Retired - but spouse is still working

I can’t wait for my wife to retire. What? Yes, I mean it. I planned ahead for retirement. I have plenty of hobbies and retirement has been the greatest. However, my wife still works. Therefore, ...

reddit.com Sep 26 2024

What to Do If Your Doctor Spouse Dies Young

As doctors, we know people die all the time. Financially speaking, it's a massive tragedy to lose income when others are depending on it. The post What to Do If Your Doctor Spouse Dies Young appeared ...

whitecoatinvestor.com Sep 18 2024

Retiring before spouse due to medical issues

My husband and I had an excellent retirement plan and were planning on retiring the same month. We have a vision for what that will be like and what we will do, However, I’m having mobility prob...

reddit.com Aug 22 2024

Social security early for working spouse

This might seem like an odd question but I've been getting conflicting advice. Husband 71 and retired with pension and SS. I'm 65 and working full time at the moment. My full SS is 66, 10 months. My h...

reddit.com Jul 28 2024

Thoughts on insurance for a younger spouse

I'm a 66 y/o male who would like to retire. My spouse is 63 so she is two years away from Medicare. The thing is, we currently have excellent insurance under my employer. January 1st would open up the...

reddit.com Jun 13 2024

Retiring before wife, and it feels weird

I am a male 61, wife is 53. Our marriage has consisted of traditional rolls, and very successful. She has been working for school system for 15 years as a teachers aide. I will retire before my wife. ...

reddit.com May 31 2024

Health care with younger spouse

I am 60 but my spouse is 38. I currently have our health insurance through my job. I plan to retire at 67. 1. When I turn 65 can I keep my employer insurance or will I be forced to take Medicare with ...

reddit.com May 28 2024

Spouse May Be Your Best Option for IRA Beneficiary

Since a surviving spouse gets the most flexibility and tax breaks of all possible beneficiaries (other than perhaps a charity), it seems that choosing your spouse as the beneficiary of your IRA may be...

financialducksinarow.com May 13 2024

IRA transfer to survivor spouse

I inherited my husband's IRA retirement upon his death. I am liable for Federal taxes if I transfer this to my IIRA retirement?...

community.aarp.org May 10 2024

Wife wants to move and husband does not

I (64F) retired in December 2019 and husband (63M) shut down his business December 2023. We live in a HCOL area that is getting more crowded, higher crime and more noise and air pollution. I hate it h...

reddit.com Apr 11 2024

Retirement at same time of spouse?

I’m a 54F who really wants to retire in two years. My partner and I have planned for retirement at age 59. He said he is okay with me retiring in 2 years-but I’m concerned he will be resen...

reddit.com Mar 26 2024

Retiring after working with spouse

My spouse and I have worked in the same office for almost 15 years. We will be retiring at the same time three years from now). Has anyone been in the situation? I know people can struggle to along wi...

reddit.com Mar 20 2024

Retirement date changed and spouse mad

I went for a pre consultation about retiring but the rep I spoke to didn't seem knowledgeable I was a given a date of 6 months from now which didn't seem correct. I went for another consultation and t...

reddit.com Mar 10 2024

Younger spouse and health insurance concerns

I am self employed and my company buys health insurance for our group. Spouse has worked for my company for a couple of years, but was on our health insurance regardless. I will be Medicare eligible 8...

reddit.com Feb 25 2024

How a Spouse Can Stretch an Inherited IRA

Photo credit: jb If you or someone you know has inherited an IRA from a spouse, there are several options available for handling the account. You could transfer the IRA to an inherited IRA, properly t...

financialducksinarow.com Jan 15 2024

Should wife file early or wait until I start collecting?

I would like your opinion. I don’t plan on collecting SS until my full retirement age which is a few years from now. After that, God willing, I plan on working until I’m 70. My wife is at ...

reddit.com Jan 12 2024

SPOUSE NOT RETIRING YET

My spouse is 8 years younger and will not be on SS for several more years. I am 65 and want to retire, but I have read that his income will deduct what I should be able to draw. How much will I be pen...

community.aarp.org Dec 30 2023

Should Your Spouse Work or Stay At Home?

In this week’s video, we’re going to talk through one of the most difficult decisions a couple can make: can they live on a single income to be able to stay at home with their kids. This u...

thomaskopelman.com Dec 06 2023

How much SS after death of spouse

Both my wife and I are collecting SS benefits. I waited until just short of age 70 to collect. She started collecting at age 63. I receive the larger amount. When one of us passes, how is the survivin...

community.aarp.org Oct 18 2023

Is this enough for my wife to live on?

Hi. We are both in our mid fifties and live in Los Angeles. If I were to die tomorrow, a distinct possibility, could she make 300K last the rest of her life? She’s on permanent disability and re...

reddit.com Mar 13 2023

Exceptions to the One House, One Spouse, One Job Rule

By Dr. James M. Dahle, WCI Founder Anyone who has been around the physician financial blogosphere has probably heard someone cite the “one house, one spouse” rule of thumb. In 2015, I expa...

whitecoatinvestor.com Feb 20 2023

Wife doesn’t want me to retire

Wife and I are both 52. I’m currently making around $300k a year in a fairly high stress role that I hate. My wife retired 5 years ago due to health issues - she gets $36k a year for disability....

reddit.com Feb 16 2023

11 months to retirement and haven’t convinced my wife ?

Now 11 months out and i haven’t convinced my wife. She thinks I should stay another 18 months until our kids are out of college. Apparently I need to prepare a PowerPoint and binder like I&rsquo...

reddit.com Feb 04 2023

how to convince wife to take ss?

I am 64 and will retire from my job in 10 months. My wife is 63 and stopped working about 5 years ago, went back to get an accounting degree, got a job that she hated and quit. That job entailed us mo...

reddit.com Feb 03 2023

How are you Handling the current sequence of return risk

I just retired last June after my wife twisted my arm. I’ve always feared “the market will tank as soon as I retire and start withdrawing from my funds”. Lucky me, it waited 3 months. I’m not used to ...

reddit.com Oct 01 2026

Threading the needle for retirement.

I am wanting to really thread the needle with our retirement plan but my wife is a bit more conservative (also three years younger than me). I’m 55 and we have over 1.3M in a variety of retirement acc...

reddit.com Oct 01 2026

Part time at full time salary after 65 or retire

I have have been extremely fortunate in my career as an attorney and am planning on retiring in November just before I turn 65. My wife retired last year at 63 with a fairly lucrative retirement portf...

reddit.com Oct 01 2026

Unexpected company benefit for retirees.

I recently sat with company HR to explore retirement so that I can choose my exact date, learn about COBRA for younger spouse, etc. I was surprised when it was recommended that I delay my retirement b...

reddit.com Sep 28 2026

Yearly financial review went great!

According to our financial advisor we’ll have about $900,000 when we’re 94! I doubt we’ll live that long though. He also said we’re actually “under spending”. My husband wasn’t happy that he said that...

reddit.com Sep 26 2026

Financial Despair Is When You End Up Paying Money To Work

Once both our children began school full-time in 2024, my wife and I had more breathing room. At least six hours a day of free time. No more wrangling toddlers in the chaos of the early years. I used ...

financialsamurai.com Sep 25 2026

Generational Wealth or Philanthropy?

Barring long term care needs like a nursing home, which are over the top expensive, my wife and I should be able to live well off of SS and the 4-5% we make on our portfolio. The question is what to d...

reddit.com Sep 23 2026