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How Long Do You and Your Spouse Plan to Live, Part 2

This post is follow-up to our post of December 22, 2024 and will again highlight the benefits of using the Actuaries Longevity Illustrator (ALI) to help you develop reasonable lifetime planning period...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Dec 14 2025

How are you planning for your spouse after you die?

I (M74) am really having a difficult time trying to decide how and who to handle our assets after my death. I have done most of our investing and financial management in the past. The majority is in b...

reddit.com Nov 11 2025

ACA Health Plan Premiums When One Spouse Starts Medicare

The ACA health plan premiums may decrease, stay the same, or even increase when one spouse starts Medicare. Here's why. Learn the Nuts and Bolts I put everything I use to manage my money in a book. My...

thefinancebuff.com Nov 11 2025

Age difference in retirement between my wife and myself.

Wondering how others approached this. I am 57, my wife is 46. I could retire at 62, 65 easily but how do I not work for the 10 years that my wife has to work? Just a moral dilemma I am trying to plan ...

reddit.com Oct 06 2025

Wife vs. Husband: A Retirement Account Showdown

I have a 403(b). My wife has a 401(k). Let's figure out who has the better retirement account and if it matters for our portfolio. The post Wife vs. Husband: A Retirement Account Showdown appeared fir...

whitecoatinvestor.com Aug 11 2025

What to Do After Losing Your Spouse: An Expert Guide

Some financial decisions need to be made sooner rather than later. In honor of International Widows' Day, here's what you need to know about gathering documents and contacting government agencies and ...

kiplinger.com Jun 23 2025

Ideas for retirement gift for husband

My husband is retiring at the end of June at the age of 60. I’ll be following next February when I turn 60. I would really like to get him a gift to celebrate this milestone, especially since I ...

reddit.com May 24 2025

I Want to FIRE But My Wife Doesn’t

FIRECracker is a world-travelling early retiree. She used to live in one of the most expensive cities in Canada, but ... Read more...

physicianonfire.com May 03 2025

Reader Case: I Want to FIRE But My Wife Doesn’t

It’s been a while and our reader cases are piling up, so without further ado, it’s time for another reader case! Greetings FC and W!!! I’m normally a “Live quietly amongthe mas...

millennial-revolution.com Apr 30 2025

What to do about Retired Husband Syndrome?

I have Retired Husband Syndrome (it's a real thing, look it up). We both retired last year and took a few months to travel - the idea being "you never know" how long you will be fit enough to do it (w...

reddit.com Apr 25 2025

Retirement Basics: What Every Spouse Should Know

? Show Notes In this episode, we kick off a month-long series on retirement basics, emphasizing the crucial role of partnership in planning for retirement. We discuss why it's vital for both spouses t...

share.transistor.fm Apr 02 2025

Is It Better To Separate Or Join Accounts With A Spouse?

How to separate or combine accounts with a spouse is a difficult decision. I have a system that has worked well. When we first got married, my wife was rightfully worried about me analyzing all of her...

dadisfire.com Mar 24 2025

Gift from one spouse to another?

hi thanks for listening! Not yet retired. I am 65 in April and love my healthcare admin job, Husband won't be 65 til Aug 26 and has a love/hate relationship with his job. My FIL died last July and we ...

reddit.com Feb 11 2025

Question about planning wife's SS benefits

I have seen contradictory information about this question online and don't find anything on the SSA website that addresses it. I am 75, the high wage-earner, and started collecting my benefits at age ...

community.aarp.org Jan 26 2025

Retiring before your spouse? How did it go?

I'm likely going to retire 3 to 4 years before my spouse will retire. Various reasons, but this has always been the plan. He is fine with it. Very supportive. I've had a minor taste of this for years ...

reddit.com Jan 23 2025

Wife's social security amount estimate

I am trying to figure out if there is a way for my wife to get larger social security amount next year. My amount will be closer to $3K but my wife's projected benefit based on government site estimat...

reddit.com Dec 28 2024

Retiring with a younger spouse

Well, finally coming up on retirement from a corporate sales job after more than thirty years. Getting Medicare at the start of 65th birthday month was the key to my decision. Younger wife (10 years) ...

reddit.com Dec 24 2024

How Long Do You and Your Spouse Plan to Live?

This post focuses primarily on the implications of assuming, or planning, to live longer than one’s life expectancy. For the purpose of this post, we are going to assume that when you are asked ...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Dec 22 2024

Spouse age gaps in retirement

I officially retired at 60 from the military (Reserve) last year and from law enforcement in 2017. My wife turns 50 next month and is planning at least 15 years until she retires. I want to travel the...

reddit.com Dec 09 2024

I am retired but spouse is not - what to do

I (60F) retired almost a year ago. My spouse has just past retirement age and is still working by choice. He has never spoken about retirement- when he would like to, what plans he has, things he want...

reddit.com Nov 10 2024

social security for spouse

My wife will reach FRA 6/2025 she will draw on my earning history. Will she be qualified for 1/2 what my SS payment was in 2019 or will it be adjusted for COLAs that have taken place since that time?...

community.aarp.org Oct 17 2024