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How did you handle a bump up in income after you retired?

[Long] This might be one of those “Shut up, good problem to have” things, but I honestly don’t have a grip on it. I’ve been retired for 2.5 years and in 6 months, I’ll claim Social Security when I hit...

reddit.com Apr 11 2026

Roth IRA Conversion? Yes or No?

I just turned 65 so I will not have to start taking RMDs until I'm 75. Since IRMAA is based on income from 2 years prior, that means I won't get hit with IRMAA until I'm 77 (2 years after my RMDs star...

reddit.com Apr 08 2026

Complacency cautionary tale involving stairs!

(65M) in good health here, urging all my friends to be careful around the house, as danger lurks where we least expect it and we don’t heal like we used to. Two days ago I nonchalantly headed downstai...

reddit.com Apr 06 2026

My Wife Took The Kids And Left Me – Thoughts Appreciated

Since 2009, I've been writing about all the ups and downs of my financial independence journey, the good and the bad. What I can clearly say is that who you partner with in life is one of the most imp...

financialsamurai.com Apr 05 2026

SS Survivor Benefits

From what I’ve read it’s my understanding if I claim a SS Survivors benefit the amount is based on a percentage of my spouse’s SS benefit at age 67 (FRA). If I claim the benefit at age 60 it would be ...

community.aarp.org Apr 05 2026

How to decide what matters in downsizing?

We are looking to downsize from a 4500sf home. Naturally, that will mean giving up space, but we’re having a hard time prioritizing. Every room in our current home is spacious and we have lots of stor...

reddit.com Apr 02 2026

What Happens to Your 401(k) When You Die?

When you die, your 401(k) only passes to the named beneficiary. Spouses can roll the account into their own IRA, but most non-spouse beneficiaries must withdraw the funds within 10 years, which can tr...

401kmaneuver.com Mar 30 2026

Did you feel guilty after retiring?

I (F, 62) unexpectedly inherited my mother's house and some small investments which have enabled me to retire. It's been a tough year with Mom's death, house sale, all her 'stuff', my husband's job di...

reddit.com Mar 23 2026

Anyone else in my (or similar) shoes?

I have never felt less ready, but more needful, to retire. I am soon to be 66, and have really only had 3 "career" jobs since graduating college at age 22. The first one lasted over 30 years, it was s...

reddit.com Mar 21 2026

Is there a compromise or go our own ways?

Looking for input, as one or more of you have have experienced my situation, and I’m not sure where to go next. Background: husband, 60, retiring next January, originally from nyc moved around a lot g...

reddit.com Mar 16 2026

Completed 6 Weeks Retirement & Feel Better

Hello. I was feeling pretty low 3 weeks ago, after my job of almost 26 years ended on January 30. What has helped me so far: Daily exercise. Walking 5 days a week, and dumbbells for upper body 2 days ...

reddit.com Mar 16 2026

A Serendipitous Question Now That You’re Retired

A longtime friend of mine visited last week. She plans to retire in three years, while I’ve been retired for almost six years. She told me that after she retires from her current career, she’d like to...

reddit.com Mar 13 2026

The Pain Of Selling A Home Too Soon In A Rising Market

Recently, a home in the beautiful Forest Hill neighborhood of San Francisco was listed for $2.4 million. It had four bedrooms, three bathrooms, and a modest 2,250 square feet. The home had been remode...

financialsamurai.com Mar 09 2026

Readiness needs specify household vs individual accounts

So, hear me out. My husband and I could have retired sooner, but we were having a difficult time trusting that we were ready. We had a pretty good portfolio of investments and savings, but was it enou...

reddit.com Mar 07 2026

Can We Pay for College Without a 529?

As my family grows, my wife and I will need to find ways to pay for college. What are the alternatives rather than just using a 529? The post Can We Pay for College Without a 529? appeared first on Th...

whitecoatinvestor.com Mar 06 2026

Poor Financial Planning (Not Me)

My wife and I met with our CPA today to sign our 2025 tax forms. During our conversation, I asked him how much we could convert from my traditional IRA to my Roth IRA, without bumping us into a higher...

reddit.com Mar 04 2026

Have you/do you plan to downsize your car in retirement?

UK here and realise a large US audience may have different ‘normal’ for cars but let’s see Have always driven family/practical cars. Enough space for car seats and strollers and lanky teenagers and ho...

reddit.com Mar 02 2026

Retirement Finances, first 20 months

I retired June 1, 2024. My wife is still working, her planned last day is June 30, this year. Here's a few things I've noticed.... I'm maintaining our 'retirement fund' portfolio at Vanguard in the 60...

reddit.com Feb 28 2026

Can You Afford to Remodel Your Home in Retirement?

Your spouse wants to remodel your kitchen and several bathrooms in your house. You’ve received a quote for the work for about $100,000. Using a strategic withdrawal approach and a Monte Carlo modeling...

howmuchcaniaffordtospendinretirement.blogspot.com Feb 27 2026

Early Retirement, seeking advice

My wife (62) and I are starting to think seriously about our next steps and would really value some outside perspective. I’m turning 60 this year. We’re mortgage-free and have around £250,000 in savin...

reddit.com Feb 26 2026